I’ve been told bio oil is incredible for things like this. Also try dabbing polysporin on them. There’s something called Body Glide, it was developed for runners who get the same thing. Maybe look into it?
- Sugarhearse
I has a cute relationship story I guess :o Well, more chaotic than cute. So my current boyfriend of 2 years has been my best friend through all of high school (finishing freshman year of college at the moment), and we have been good friends since the first grade. So yeah, we knew each other for a WHILEEEE before we started dating.
He apparently started liking me around our sophomore year of high school (didnt tell me this until after the fact), aaaaand I was a totally dense person who probably liked him but was too silly to realize it. But eventually I came to my senses around the middle of our junior year. Of course, I was scared because I didn’t want to mess up our friendship. So, I confided in a mutual friend after a few months of freaking out internally.
In turn…that mutual friend told me that my bestest friend in the world liked me, and I should go for it. And this mutual friend also took it upon himself to speed up the process. In a second attempt at kidnapping me (yes, there was a first failed attempt since he attempted to leave his home after getting his wisdom teeth pulled >__>), the mutual friend dragged me out of my house while I was grounded and DID NOT HAVE SHOES ON and dragged me to my best friend’s house. Then he proceeded to hint obviously at why I was there. Then he left me there without a ride home and still without shoes.
Luckily, best friend’s family loves me so I got to stay. We spent the evening as usual: harass another buddy who worked at Dairy Queen, yell like goofballs, play super smash bros brawl. At around 11 (curfew was 12), I stopped playing Brawl, and got really quiet. I tried to get the words out, but my voice wouldnt work. So, I did the next best thing I could think of. He likes to steal my phone allll the time to bug me, so i typed “I like you.” out on a blank message and set the phone on my knee. Like clockwork, he picked it up…..but didnt look at it. I shoved the phone back into his hands….and then I got a hug. Lots of hugs and laughing and me probably being near tears like twenty times from happiness/stress going away
It wasn’t anything too seemingly special, but it was one of the best nights of my life. We’ve been together through a lot of firsts (despite dating before him, I never had my first kiss), a lot of hardships, and a lot of amazing times. I love him more than anything c: And we are also still great friends with our crazy mutual friend (who I am forever thankful towards). Heck, I’m seeing him and the boyfriend tonight I think xD
But ladies and gents, if you like your friends, i know its scary. But, you need to be honest with both them and yourself. Tell them how you feel, and even if it doesnt work out, you still have that friendship. Move on the best you can and work hard to keep the friendship. If you are truly friends, you can overcome anything c:
Some women squirt everywhere, some it is only a trickle. Although I’ve never had it happen to me, so I don’t know what it feels like.
- Sugarhearse
So, im a virgin but i masturbate like crazy. I like bondage espically when it comes to tieing up and torturing my bf. So, i was horny and i coudent call my boo, so i started to masturbate. I desided to tie myself up. You know just to try it. It was hard but i managed to tie my legs and left hand to the head bord of my bed. It was so hot! I came atleast…6 times. Never had i been so horny in my life! Well i was inturupted by this blood chilling scream. I lean back to see what in da hell was going on (cuz im tied to the bed and cant turn around) to find my aunt pointing and screaming. Her fiance come running in to see the problem…and there i am. Booty ass naked and tied to the bed. My aunt covers her face ans runs off while im franticaly trying to untie myself. Im swearing and cursing under my breath when i remimber her fience (my uncle now). He chuckled under his breath and said, “You really need to get laid.” And thats why you should lock your doors.
Did your doc use latex gloves, or any kind of lube on the speculum? Call them and tell them this, and ask what exactly they used on you. You could have an allergy.
- SUgarhearse
Literally an hour ago, I got laid. I’m also on my period. It’s unusually heavy, so this was the perfect time to test run the secret that is the triangular makeup sponge. And it worked flawlessly. No blood anywhere, he didn’t even notice I had one in, and excellent times were had by all. IMPORTANT: Getting it out was a slight pain, as it got wedged pretty far in. If you’re at all worried about not being able to get it out, DON’T try this.
If you’re wary about sticking a makeup sponge up your vag, you can buy special re-usable sea sponges that act like a tampon, and will work the same way for anyone who wants period sex without the mess. The link is below
http://www.jadeandpearl.com/catalog/sea_pearls_how.php
- Sugarhearse
You both need to seriously just ignore her. Talking to her obviously didn’t work, she probably thinks that eventually your boyfriend will “give in.” If you know he won’t do anything then it’s harmless, but I can see how it would be really annoying. So basically don’t give her any chance to hit on him. To both of you: Don’t talk to her, don’t hang out in the same places as her, delete her on Facebook… If she can’t contact him, problem solved.
-Alyssa
Well if he said he wants to be your FWB, that kind of does mean he just wants to have sex with you. I think you definitely need to tell him that you want your first time to be with someone you’re in a relationship with, if that’s how you feel.
-Alyssa
You don’t have to take a shower with him right away just because he wants to. Maybe try making out and going a little further in the dark so the first time he sees you naked isn’t all out in the open and you won’t feel so self-conscious. You might also want to make sure he knows that if you do take a shower with him, that doesn’t mean you’ll necessarily have sex with him. I’m glad I could help. =]
-Alyssa
I need some help with my boy situation. There’s this guy I like, Ryan, and he says he likes me too. He says he wants to date me but since he leaves for college in a month or so, he doesn’t want to start anything. For a while, I thought he didn’t like me because you know how they say if you feel a spark in a kiss, that means there could be something? Well, we kissed and for the two weeks after that, it’s like he totally ignored me. When I asked him about it, Ryan told me it’s because Scott was “making his plays” so he was staying out the way and not be a cockblocker. After I told Ryan that I didn’t like Scott and wasn’t going to be dating him, it’s like everything changed. Now he texts me a lot, saying he misses me and misses holding me, the shibang. We’ve hung out a lot lately and when we hung out last Saturday, things got hot and heavy. Like, oh my gosh. We didn’t have sex, just grinded on one another and kissing like crazy. The next morning, he asked if we could take a shower together (lol). I know this will probably be hard to give advice to since this is just the gist of everything and you’re outside looking in, but I’m just so unsure whether he genuinely likes me or wants to just have sex with me. He continually says he won’t go farther than what I’m willing to do and respects my decisions about sex (being I’m still a virgin and never had a serious relationship). If there’s anything I need to clarify on, just ask and I’ll do my best! Thank you so much for reading this, I appreciate it bunches <333
Ok, I honestly don’t see anything wrong with this guy. He sounds great! He was willing to stay out of the way of the other guy, he’s not pressuring you into sex… It’s understandable that he’d want to take a shower together after you’d been making out the night before, so I wouldn’t worry about him only liking you for sex. I mean, my boyfriend and I shower together all the time and almost never have sex in there (it’s harder than porn makes it look ok?). You two could still stay together after he starts college, but even if you don’t, there’s nothing necessarily wrong with just having fun with him over the summer. That’s my two cents!
-Alyssa
