Looking good! Feeling Good!







Questions:

Sex
Hygiene
Relationships
Periods
Birth Control
Health
Beauty
Man Mondays
TMI Tuesdays

Stories:

Sex
First Time
Awkward
Period
Cute

Disclaimer: Medical advice given on this blog is not meant to replace professional information from a healthcare specialist.

Anonymous said, "To the body hair anon: Excess body hair can be a symptom of PCOS or a side effect of too much testosterone. Usually birth control pills help to control those hormones and makes things more manageable"


off-topic but you guys this is the reason we need to have a dash in our url

http://theladiesroom.tumblr.com/



Anonymous said, "Hey! I'm a 16 year old girl and (gosh this is embarrassing) I feel like I have an abnormal amount of body hair? Like, I have noticeable hairs on my breasts, stomach, face, and butt areas, and I was wondering if this is normal? Is something hormonal going on; should I see a doctor?"

Listen friend, I am also sixteen and have just as much hair in all of the places you listed. Not giving myself a foundation moustache haunts me every day. Chill out, it’s natural body hair!

-Becca


8 hours ago · 1 note

Anonymous said, "I'm 19 and still at the stage where I think sex & kissing is gross. Kinda like early school mentality where kinds made faces when sexual activity was mentioned... Is normal not to have been attracted to anyone or horny ? I don't have anything against it, the idea just doesn't not appeal to me. At all. Is something wrong?"

Hey! Firstly don’t sweat it! 19 is young man, come chill in the young corner over here!

You dont have to do or feel anything just because it seems like a lot of other people are doing it! Maybe your not ready! Maybe you haven’t spent much time on the subject! Maybe you’re even asexual!

Whatever it is, i suggest just chilling out with your existence and as long as your happy in life then stop thinking about it and crack on with other happy making things! 

If anyone asks, questions or judges you on it, inform them promptly the venn diagram of your life choices and their appropriate line of inquisition happens to be two seperate circles <3

image

~Trip


9 hours ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "You know that horrible rash you get after shaving? Quick way to clear it up is to use diaper/nappy rash cream used on babies on the area and it feels a lot better, leaves your skin soft as a babies' bottom too haha"


Anonymous said, "I've been dating this guy for a few months now and we're very serious and devoted to each other and could possibly see it going much farther in the future but for the past couple weeks we have not had sex or really any large amount of intimacy at all and I'm starting to worry. Is it normal for couples to go through phases where there's no sex?"

YES! It’s completely normal to go through no-sex periods. If you’re not really feeling it and neither is he, then that’s just how it goes. Your libido will come back and everything will be fine. Come back and ask us again when it’s been a few months, haha.

-Alyssa



Anonymous said, "Any advice for an 18 year old girl about to be living in her car? No job, little money, and no friends/family to help out. Pretty helpless, huh?"

I was homeless once anon, so I know what you’re going through. The best advice I can give you is don’t be afraid to ask for help. Contact local homeless shelters to see if they have any available beds. If you live in the US (not sure how it is in other countries), find out who to talk to about applying for food stamps and low-income housing, and there are even programs that will help you find a job. Find out where your local food pantries are. Go to the YMCA when you need to shower. Reach out on social networking sites like Facebook and Tumblr to see if anyone will let you crash on their couch.

I know how hard it can be to ask for help. Trust me, I know. But there are programs in place for people in your situation, and they see hundreds or even thousands of people just like you every year. They’re not going to look down on you, they’re there to help. Good luck and please let us know how you’re doing.

-Alyssa



Anonymous said, "Bragging time: my bf and I had the absolute best sex we've ever had today for my birthday. We used to always do doggy because he's so much taller, but we finally got missionary to work with my legs around him after spending the day doing oral and I orgasmed again and again, and he said it was the best orgasm he ever had. Definitely the best birthday ever."



Anonymous said, "First off I'm a virgin so I don't have any stds and no one else has done anything to me unintentionally like injured me during sex or anything lol. After my orgasms I end up having a "period" for a day or two (sometimes more) afterwards. Nothing is torn of anything, it happens with clitoral stimulated orgasms. I'm guessing the spasms during/after orgasm, in my uterus, cause this. Is it normal?"

As far as I know, that’s not normal. You should definitely go to the doctor, because something could be seriously wrong with your uterus/cervix. I’m sure it’s not life-threatening, especially if you’re only experiencing bleeding and no other symptoms, but it’s always good to get checked out! It could even be something as simple as loose tissue. Let us know what happens!

-Alyssa



Anonymous said, "is it normal for the crotch of your panties to get noticeably damp during the day? as far as i can tell i don't have a yeast infection (i've had one before and i know what it feels like) but sometimes i feel almost like i've peed myself and need to change underwear more than once a day. i use regular cotton panties that you can by in a pack"

That’s normal! They’re getting damp from your vaginal discharge. Everyone with a vagina has it, some just have more than others. Try using panty liners.

-Alyssa



shesthunderstorms said, "Hi cuties! I know you don't answer questions like this usually, but I'm having a nose surgery for health and aesthetical reasons, I'd like to know if any of you or your followers have had a plastic surgery, just to know your opinions or experiences. Thanks! ♥ ♥"

Followers?



Anonymous said, "When I'm on my period I sometimes get really apathetic and while some things can manage to entertain me for a while, most of the time during these little bouts I just feel really empty and blank. Is this normal?"

Sadly, YEP!

I personally don’t suffer from PMS but I know some of the other mods and a great deal of my friends do, it can be before after or during your period and can cause you to be mopey, tearful, overly attached, grumpy, anything! 

However if you feel its disproportionate suffering then please head to your GP and you could look at BC or other avenues to alleviate the woe - additonally if you do feel its disproportionate then it could also be something else but if it does only happen around menstruation/ovulation then I’d say its probably some variety of PMS

Love and cuddles to you dear

~Trip 


16 hours ago · 1 note

Anonymous said, "This isn't really a question, more of a confession. I'm really sexually frustrated but no other girls like me. :( Gay dating is hard. I wish I could just have no-strings-attached sex and not feel guilty about it."

Hey lady, firstly, Hi5 on the mad sexual frustration - I swing everyway but I’m still in drought season.. 

Depending on your age you could try a NSA dating site (Like adult friend finder, fet life, killing kittens et al) additionally have you tried attending an LGBT meeting or clubin your area? 

Dating, fucking, relationships can be hard regardless of sexual identity, gender or preference so please know you are not alone!

Write in when you find someone and successfully do the duvet dive! 

~Trip


16 hours ago · 1 note

Anonymous said, "i think it was a bit out of order that you were so snappy to that other anon. We all understand you guys have other things to do but there was no need to be rude when you were asked a simple question"

I’d be sorry if this hadn’t already happened at least three dozen times, probably more in the life of the blog that goes on longer than me.

generally think we are a real sweet button tastic bunch of people answerin’ all these questions n shit but if you have to push us on the same thing over and over we aren’t going to be patient about it.

We also get questions that do get deleted because at least three times a week someone will ask something that has been answered twice recently and is also outlined in our faq

Update: Inbox lvl 47 


also, we have an FAQ

also please remember if you can’t wait for a few days for us to get to your question then please know you should be contacting an emergency contact like your GP, therapist, NHS direct, a hotline or a family/friend.

~Trip


16 hours ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, but I have no idea how to tell my friends/family. The break up was mutual, and I'm not really upset about it. But my best friend always gets really angry at my exs after we break up, so Idk what to do."

This may sound rather bitchy and blunt, but I would tell your friend to get a grip and grow up. If there was a mutual decision for the relationship to end, they have no right to be angry, at either of you. Explain to them that you are content with the way things have panned out, and I think that if they’re really your friend then they should be able to accept it. Unless you’ve been hurt in some way by him, there’s no need for anyone to be angry at anyone, more so because your friend was not the one dating the boy. As for your family, literally all you have to say is ‘I broke up with him’. You don’t really need to go into more detail unless you want to.

Doubtless some of our other mods or followers will have different advice, but however you end up going abut it, darling, good luck!

-Becca


18 hours ago · 0 notes