I’m assuming you mean within the realms of an eating disorder, which is a purely psychological phenomenon that creates a warped relationship with food. Bingeing is often described as an intense loss of self-control, often triggered by stress, strong emotions, or even boredom. Guilt follows, as well as an intense fear of gaining weight, and so the individual purges to get rid of the food (and thereby the guilt). Vomiting causes the body to produce certain hormones, leaving the individual existing in a sort of manic hype before and during the purge, and then very calm and even sleepy afterwards.
In reality, with many eating disorders, food is simply a vehicle for comfort and control. Obviously, everyone’s experiences with their own personal disorders is different; this is a very broad spectrum ‘typical’ explanation of the motivation behind bulimic behavior.
Now for the fear mongering PSA:
Inducing vomiting is not a sustainable way to lose weight, and it’s dangerous. You can aspirate your vomit, tear your esophagus, etc. In the long term, your teeth begin to decay from frequent acid exposure and you have halitosis constantly. You will begin to have a learned response to large amounts of food in which you are intensely nauseated. You will be caught in a very vicious b/p cycle that slowly but surely consumes your life.
It seems to me that often anorexia is shown as the more “serious” eating disorder over bulimia, but they are equally as dangerous and dehabilitating to mind and body. They can both kill you very quickly, and if they don’t, they cause permanent organ damage, and as recent studies have shown, even neurological damage.
If you think you may have an eating disorder, please seek help. It is not a diet, it is not “just for a few weeks”, it is an all-consuming illness that I would not wish on my worst enemy.
EDIT:: I should not have said that EDs are a purely psychological phenomenon. New research has found that much like addiction, a brain can be predisposed to ED thoughts and behaviors because of the size and function of certain areas of the brain, especially those controlling anxiety, hunger, mood, and fear. The idea has also been proposed that these is a genetic marker for EDs, meaning the illness can be passed from parents.
Ugh the worst, i’d say just drop it and leave it alone and never pick it up again if he is being a dingus!
On the other hand you can pursue and get an answer if the job is like, at a convenience store! Maybe hmm okay too if its like a call center but if you’re like in HR or something where yall are concerned about career progression n stuff then definitely drop it and leave it alone as sexy based fun isn’t worth loosing a srs job over!
If you want to know/want to see if you guys can find a way to keep this going then do just remember to weigh in the work balance/importance in their somewhere!
You could try blotting with gauze tape before the blood congeals, when its stop bleeding LEAVE IT ALONE AND DONT TOUCHY TOUCH YOUSELF UNTILL ITS HEALED! Be careful and keep the area clean and dry (as is reasonable and possible) okei? ~Trip
If you’re super nervous you could shower together and do it there first time round, or shower before he comes over.
Vaginas taste like vagina and not like anything else so I promise nothing is weird or bad about your vulva/vagina region! Dicks don’t taste like strawberries and cream do they? no! So no reasonable person imagines vaginas will either!
As long as you’re not suffering at UTI or yeast infection right now ya’ll gonna be good to go!
Its normal so idk really what to say other than check the shaving/waxing tag!
You could wax or your dilatory cream which might make the regrowth softest, other than that you don’t have many other options! Though you could also try bleaching!
Most relationships serious or not end! Statistical fact! If you move, do it just the same as you would normally and you get like BONUS points for being new and exotic wherever you’re moving too!
If you’re staying i see no harm in like dating someone, when you leave you guys can LTR or mutually break up!
Mainly you seem unsure/with little direction, you want a boyfriend but don’t want to make a boyfriend out of someone? Just a vague sort of faceless boyfriend right now? Why? Do you really need one?
SPIT IT OUT
You could also try suckn dick with a condom on?! Or maybe best/easiest is tell him to tell you when hes going to cum so he can like cum in your hand and like somewhere that is not your mouth
Ugh I know! Boys are gross drop kick them to the curb and run to buy ice cream (but not vanillia lest that remind you of dicks)!
Obviously, my first and foremost advice would be to find your way back to recovery. “Blah blah blah Kit, if I wanted that kind of oversimplified bullshit advice I’d go to an ED counselor” yeah whatever I know I know. But really. Just two weeks ago after FOUR MONTHS of relapsing in anorexic behaviors, I took up recovery again and my body has been so happy. Okay, obvious advice over now.
Usually when I got acne from purging, it was from splashback. You can help that by throwing some toilet paper into the toilet before you purge. Drinking plenty of water also helps, and only purging with freshly cleaned hands. And, obviously, clean your face every night.
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