3/4 of on are definitely on hiatus and we’re struggling to keep the inbox below 20 which is a small flag for me as no way do i want to see an inbox of 50 plus message ever ever again!
There is no application form.
What you need to know:
Like I said, no application form! As I said earlier as most of us are MIA we probably won’t all be reviewing applications, so if you look good to one of us, we’ll invite you in. We’re probably looking for 2 or 3.
To apply write us (or submit) an application! Instead of us having questions for you I want you to just sell yourself, think of it as a social CV or an open letter to us, or, whatever!
This is open till we’ve found who we want, and if you’re not one of the two we pick of course we’ll let you know!
G’luck! Triplash out
alwayz worth rememberin: whether u like dudes or not, dudes can be nice, but u absolutely dont need one, i love not relying on any man. i wake up, make my own shit, clean my carpet, build my drum rack. never in my life have i needed a man, and nor do you. your alone? you have womankind. mad love
Oh, you’re so welcome. And I’m sorry that you have had to experience this, and I am here to tell you that it was NOT your fault. Not in the slightest. We’re always here for you, on this blog and our personal blog. Lots of hugs and support.
Idk if you should be drinking them, but yeah.
From what I know, Mexico, like reports from friends in Italy, Spain and tbh, the USA (the usa is not a saint) countries with high rates of religion as part of their culture tend to have those values, its sad and awful (also fuck the catholic church holy shit bye) BUT those values will slowly change, and each person who refuses to be shamed or intimidated into stopping or not starting BC (or other meds) for lame-o reasons like that, are part of that very change!
We will win! No periods! No religious gate keepers!
And all of these criteria were met for the entire encounter, it was (probably, hopefully) consensual.
And any of these things were true of or happened before, during, or after your encounter, it was not consensual.
Well, my strongest advice is therapy. Abuse alone is something that warrants the attention of a professional, but especially something that’s emotionally twisted as that.
In the meantime, I think it would be helpful if you took some time to define what love means to you. Not what it meant to your parents, or what you thought it meant; what YOU think love SHOULD be. Is it security, kind words, always being there, physical affection, making sacrifices, what? Also, there are more ways to say you love someone than “I love you”. Remind him of all the things that make you care about him, and the things he does that make you happy or feel good.
I’m sure explaining the situation to him (if you feel comfortable doing so) will also save some hurt feelings about the ‘saying I love you back’ issue.
I don’t think I understand this but I know that I’m slightly offended.
It’s akin to the whole ‘you must be on your period’ bullshit that often gaslights women into thinking that their anger is ‘irrational’ when really he’s being a fucking jackass and is trying to deflect by delegitimizing her anger.
Mental Illness is used to discredit all sorts of real, genuine emotion and opinion. “Have you taken your crazy pills today?” “That’s probably just your depression talking.” “You know that there’s no reason to be afraid, right? You’re just being crazy.”
Nooooooooo not at all!
Imagine if there were laws that governed every person women dated had to be x amount taller than you in height.
imagine it. Literally, imagine it. I know some people are living by some kooky idea that that is law and not their own freaky standard for society but its not law because that would b cray cray so, you go girl, enjoy your fulfilling relationship and high 5 from another tall girl
My best advice, other than the TM self esteem suggestions is to go and follow Fat Bloggers, surround yourself with perticularly fat positive things and in hand with being a confident You and working on your own else esteem (affirmations, self love and self care etc etc) being surrounded by the things you aspire to be (aka a sexy fat girl with awesome sex life) will help you get there!
There is a fancy word for that but i don’t know what it is
Yes! One day! That day is, right now!
My best friend is a TM certified Fat Girl and her boyfriend is not a fat guy and they have been together 3 years (i think) and they have an awesome sex life (i know) and he does not have a fat fetish (his ex’s were not fat) and they’re very happy and make me sick with their romance!
Its gonna happen girl! Its happening right now! And right now will happen for you too one day
I’m glad it was perfect and thank you for writing in to share
So I’m not sure what country you live in, but in the US, that definitely makes you eligible for disability payments. Honestly I guess it’s just a matter of finding a job where your disabilities would not affect your work. Maybe chat and email support for a company? Programming? Data entry? Medical billing?
This was the exact reason (well, one of the reasons) I broke up with my boyfriend last month. It’s just not worth being with someone that doesn’t feel anything for you anymore. It’s pretty miserable. It’s going to hurt and it’ll be really shitty for a while, but end it. You will feel sad, but probably also really relieved.