Hello cool follower peeps, I’m Katya and I’m gonna help the team here answer questions for a couple months or so! Um some stats on me are:
I hope I can help y’all out and such!
It is so 100% normal it’s crazy. It’s just like how everyone has an eye that’s slightly larger than the other, or one leg a teensy big longer. No one’s symmetrical.
No and i promise you sex is really really really not a big deal AT ALL Some people i know changed (grew up?) after having sex but it was literally only because they calmed the fuck down and stopped having some inferiority complex about it, some magic invisible box was ticked and they stopped acting like they had something to make up for.
No one ever knew when i first did PIV (i’m still a virgin with girls) because no one noticed anything change, sex wasn’t a big deal for me and I didnt hold any invisible gripes about it so it was like, my first time going to a new store or buying new shoes or graduating a year at school etc.
So unless you’re fretting for other reasons, please don’t fret! You really aren’t missing anything!
Personally, hell yeah.
Like, anything between consenting adults where no one else is getting hurt and your obviously not bringing children into this, well, science, then why not?
I’m sure people have many arguments against even that consenting adults isn’t relevant because there would have to be something ~wrong~ with you to consent like that. But yeah, from me, live your life if thats what you want
Oh god yes TOTALLY. Do it, there is literally 0 ick factor and you arent even vaguely close to breaking any (societal) laws!
that gif tho
bless you friend
LEARNING IS AMAZING! LEARNING IS SO GOOD. I am in my 15th year of formal education because LEARNING IS HELPFUL.
It is okay to need to learn how to do sexual things. We are not freaky babies born out of the womb with such knowledge as how to give blowjobs, what is rimming, how to put on a condom. These are things we must learn. So learn! Get excited! Get pumped!
You are also not your boyfriend’s ex, and that is a fact. You are not the same person, so there will be differences, even if there are similarities. One may try to compare you to her, but the fact remains that they cannot hold you to any sort of expectations, because you are different people.
Go ahead and if you are comfortable with the idea of learning to give a blowjob, ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR HELP! We have many guides on our blog too, so please go check them out under our FAQ, articles, searching the tags, etc. It’s all about being willing and enthusiastic about learning new things, and then practice practice practice! You got this. :)
Your sex life is none of their business. They are being rude. Give zero shits about what anyone else thinks about how you live your life.
It’s probably a side effect of the medicine. And don’t worry about those so much! I know jaundice etc. sounds scary, but here’s how medicine works: if even 1 out of 200000000 experiment participants gets jaundice, and it’s maybe because of the medicine, they are obligated to put that on the label. This does not mean you have a high chance of getting jaundice.
Do not stop taking your medicine, take every last bit as you’re meant to, and if it gets any worse go to a doctor right away. A bit of swelling is fine, but look for discolouration, acute pain, or severely abnormal inflation.
Depends! Is it chronic or acute pain? aka, is this something that happens daily or is this a one-time thing that occurred because of an injury?
There’s a million and one things you can do for back pain, but they all depend on how you injured your back. If it’s chronic (semi-permanent) then you need to see a doctor, chiropractor, massage therapist, physiotherapist, etc. If it’s because of your job (ie. serving, nursing, other standing job) then it’s best to lie down with a hot water battle pressed to the area where the pain is greatest. If it’s because you hit your back (ie. fell off your bike, etc.) do something similar but then follow-up with a doctor ASAP to make sure you haven’t displaced anything.
Hope that helps!
alwayz worth rememberin: whether u like dudes or not, dudes can be nice, but u absolutely dont need one, i love not relying on any man. i wake up, make my own shit, clean my carpet, build my drum rack. never in my life have i needed a man, and nor do you. your alone? you have womankind. mad love
Oh, you’re so welcome. And I’m sorry that you have had to experience this, and I am here to tell you that it was NOT your fault. Not in the slightest. We’re always here for you, on this blog and our personal blog. Lots of hugs and support.
Idk if you should be drinking them, but yeah.