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Hey everybody~

Hello cool follower peeps, I’m Katya and I’m gonna help the team here answer questions for a couple months or so! Um some stats on me are:

  • I’m 19 (20 in a couple weeks)
  • Cis female
  • Queer (w/ a gf of 2 years *fist pump*)
  • Like cartoons and video games
  • Majoring in foreign languages (Spanish and German, talk to meee?)

I hope I can help y’all out and such!

Anonymous said, "Is it really normal for one breast and nipple to be bigger than the other? It makes me feel really self conscious and I can tell that one is bigger than the other with no bra on. I feel like I'm the only one who has this and I even have other body problems that I feel like I only have (body hair ALL over the place, a crooked smile, my right foot is fatter than my left, privates look darker than my skin so it's "dirty, etc)."

It is so 100% normal it’s crazy. It’s just like how everyone has an eye that’s slightly larger than the other, or one leg a teensy big longer. No one’s symmetrical.

- Kit

10 hours ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "I'm a girl and almost 21 soon and I'm still a virgin and have never had a relationship or anything is something wrong with me? when I hear about people who are younger than me who have had sex I feel like they're older than me if that makes sense?"

No and i promise you sex is really really really not a big deal AT ALL Some people i know changed (grew up?) after having sex but it was literally only because they calmed the fuck down and stopped having some inferiority complex about it, some magic invisible box was ticked and they stopped acting like they had something to make up for. 

No one ever knew when i first did PIV (i’m still a virgin with girls) because no one noticed anything change, sex wasn’t a big deal for me and I didnt hold any invisible gripes about it so it was like, my first time going to a new store or buying new shoes or graduating a year at school etc.

So unless you’re fretting for other reasons, please don’t fret! You really aren’t missing anything!


15 hours ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "if its between consenting adults, and there is no reproduction. what do you think of incest?"

Personally, hell yeah.

Like, anything between consenting adults where no one else is getting hurt and your obviously not bringing children into this, well, science, then why not?

I’m sure people have many arguments against even that consenting adults isn’t relevant because there would have to be something ~wrong~ with you to consent like that. But yeah, from me, live your life if thats what you want


Anonymous said, "I don't know if you answer these kinds of questions (if not please recommend another kind of blog that does). Do you think it's okay to date your ex step brother? In this case he's not an ex "step-brother" as such as our parents never married, they only dated... Xx"

Oh god yes TOTALLY. Do it, there is literally 0 ick factor and you arent even vaguely close to breaking any (societal) laws!


16 hours ago · 2 notes

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that gif tho

bless you friend

Anonymous said, "I'd like to give my bf a blowjob cause it'd make him happy but at the same time i'm very embarassed. I've never done it, and I hate the feeling of him teaching me that stuff, cause it makes me feel inferior... somehow. Also there's the fact that he dated my best friend before me, and i'm thinking she probably did that for him and I don't wanna be compared. It's just awkward thinking of that."

LEARNING IS AMAZING! LEARNING IS SO GOOD. I am in my 15th year of formal education because LEARNING IS HELPFUL. 

It is okay to need to learn how to do sexual things. We are not freaky babies born out of the womb with such knowledge as how to give blowjobs, what is rimming, how to put on a condom. These are things we must learn. So learn! Get excited! Get pumped! 

You are also not your boyfriend’s ex, and that is a fact. You are not the same person, so there will be differences, even if there are similarities. One may try to compare you to her, but the fact remains that they cannot hold you to any sort of expectations, because you are different people

Go ahead and if you are comfortable with the idea of learning to give a blowjob, ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR HELP! We have many guides on our blog too, so please go check them out under our FAQ, articles, searching the tags, etc. It’s all about being willing and enthusiastic about learning new things, and then practice practice practice! You got this. :)


Anonymous said, "I'm really having a hard time dealing with people right now. Because i like sex so much and i am a woman, people tend to call me names even my "friends". I'm catholic btw, i just dont know how to have a positive mind about things and people. Its not like i have sex with people who are committed."

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*FUCK EM*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Your sex life is none of their business. They are being rude. Give zero shits about what anyone else thinks about how you live your life.


Anonymous said, "i was diagnosed with a UTI yesterday and have been given pills with really scary side effects like jaundice and stuff, one side affect being a 'itchy anus or genitals, swollen vagina or thrush symptoms'. this morning I woke up and my lady parts were kind of sore, and the right lip is a little swollen. it kind of feels like how an ingrown hair would feel but there are no hairs. do you think I should get this checked out or wait a few days to see if it goes down? are there any other causes?"

It’s probably a side effect of the medicine. And don’t worry about those so much! I know jaundice etc. sounds scary, but here’s how medicine works: if even 1 out of 200000000 experiment participants gets jaundice, and it’s maybe because of the medicine, they are obligated to put that on the label. This does not mean you have a high chance of getting jaundice.

Do not stop taking your medicine, take every last bit as you’re meant to, and if it gets any worse go to a doctor right away. A bit of swelling is fine, but look for discolouration, acute pain, or severely abnormal inflation.


Anonymous said, "Do you have any advice against back ache? Every muscle is screaming in pain, and I have no idea what to do."

Depends! Is it chronic or acute pain? aka, is this something that happens daily or is this a one-time thing that occurred because of an injury?

There’s a million and one things you can do for back pain, but they all depend on how you injured your back. If it’s chronic (semi-permanent) then you need to see a doctor, chiropractor, massage therapist, physiotherapist, etc. If it’s because of your job (ie. serving, nursing, other standing job) then it’s best to lie down with a hot water battle pressed to the area where the pain is greatest. If it’s because you hit your back (ie. fell off your bike, etc.) do something similar but then follow-up with a doctor ASAP to make sure you haven’t displaced anything. 

Hope that helps!


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1 day ago · 105,733 notes · originally from iraffiruse
#vaginas #vulvas #genitals


alwayz worth rememberin: whether u like dudes or not, dudes can be nice, but u absolutely dont need one, i love not relying on any man.  i wake up, make my own shit, clean my carpet, build my drum rack.  never in my life have i needed a man, and nor do you.  your alone?  you have womankind.  mad love 


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Anonymous said, "thank you so much for your answer about consent, I've been denying that it wasn't consensual for months, because I thought it was my fault"

Oh, you’re so welcome. And I’m sorry that you have had to experience this, and I am here to tell you that it was NOT your fault. Not in the slightest. We’re always here for you, on this blog and our personal blog. Lots of hugs and support.

- Kit

2 days ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "So can i have unprotected sex while drinking those last 4 brown pills?"

Idk if you should be drinking them, but yeah.

- Kit

Anonymous said, "The guy I'm crushing on kinda flirts with me, whenever I see him he always calls my name is a certain voice & always says hi too me & asks how I'm doing, do you think he likes me or anything like that?"


- Kit