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ERICA GOLDSON: Graduation speech

I think this is the best graduation speech ive ever seen.

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2 hours ago · 311,007 notes · originally from zenpencils

Anonymous said, "So I have a huge fear of flying. The only way I can get on a plane is with Xanax and a companion. I don't mind taking pills to fly since I don't do it very often, however it does get expensive to constantly travel around other people. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over the fear and go it alone? I found the only thing that really freaks me out is take off and I worry I'll just annoy the person next to me"

Okay so first of all, you should check out John Mulaney’s plane/Xanax bit, because it’s hilarious.

Anyway, when it comes to staying calm on the flight, what helps me a lot is airplane stats. Like, you’re a hundred times more likely to die in a car wreck than a plane. You may also bring something that really takes up your attention, like an audiobook, podcasts, or puzzle activities. Take some time before your flight to learn some deep breathing techniques (7-11 breathing is really simple and effective). And, of course, sleeping is a great way to make the flight a little easier.

- Kit

20 hours ago · 4 notes

Anonymous said, "Wrote an angry FB-status today, where I told the Guardians of the Morale to kindly fuck the fuck off. Uhm. In a nice way of course. Around 30 people liked it. The Guardians did not though... Hmmm..."

I don’t know who or what that is, but I always like pissing people off, so.

- Kit

20 hours ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "Ladies, stay away from ky! One of its main ingredients is glycerin, which when gets broken down by the body is turned into sugar. Yeast thrives in a warm, moist sugary environment, which may result in a yeast infection. Avoid any other lubricant with glycerin as a main ingredient- just read the label before you buy. I can recommend system Jo lubricants."

1 day ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "My dad is guilty of quite problematic views about women, particularly involving virginity. This had become more of an issue now that I have a boyfriend. He often says things along the lines of 'he'll shag you and leave you'. 'Dont trust teenage boys'. 'He'll lose interest when he goes to uni'. 'Has he got bored of you now you've put out' etc. How do I make him see reason. Along with this I'm scared to have them meet because I'm 100% sure he'll say something similar to him& make him feel uncomfy"



Other than that, I’m not sure, either avoid introducing them or just do it and prep both yourselves for ignoring your dads views


1 day ago · 0 notes



Let’s stop HIV in New York City

  • If you are HIV-negative, PEP and PrEP can help you stay that way.
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1 day ago · 51,747 notes · originally from nychealth

Anonymous said, "to the acne anon - anti-acne wash helped me a little, but didn't clear up all of it. I went to my doctor and because the acne has spread to my arms and back, he said it must be caused by bacteria and prescribed an anti-biotic (tetracycline). Three months later, I went from having quite severe acne on my face and lots of pimples over my body to perfectly clear skin, so give tetracycline a try, it helped my friend too. x"

1 day ago · 3 notes

Anonymous said, "Help with acne? Not just on face but on chest and back."

They sell anti-acne body wash at Target and WalMart.

- Kit

1 day ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "I'm having trouble staying wet during sex :( me and my SO use condoms specially for the extra lube. I don't understand why I'm having this problem. I drink lots of water and I am sexually attracted to my bf. I know there is lube like ky jelly but afraid that my bf will not want to use it. I feel like I'm failing sexually because I can't stay wet and it's causing relationship problems because me and my bf have had to stop having sex because of the dryness. I just feel really guilty and unsexy"

yo yo yo

this is such a common problem and there’s no reason to feel bad about it. BODIES DO THINGS WE DON’T WANT THEM TO DO. but the solution is so simple as just using lube. If your bf doesn’t want to use it, well… Then he’s not going to have sex, is he?

- Kit

1 day ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "So my dad is a male chauvinist and pretty set in his ways. the problem is he doesn't realize it. he was brought up by very old fashioned parents and its normal to him. He doesn't know hes verbally abusing my mom and shes so used to it now I don't think she knows what to do. How do I make him understand and mom stand up for herself? I don't to cause problems in their relationship but i know its not right."

So I have a similar problem with my parents.

1. Challenge your father on his ideas concerning the sexes. Say, why is that? How do you come to that conclusion? Where/when have you seen that? You’re going to be accused of being a smartmouth. Ignore it.

2. Empower your mom. When you are outside of a situation, encourage her to speak her opinion (even if it’s on something trivial). When she does speak up for herself, back her up.

3. You can also stand up to your dad. You don’t have to be belligerent about it, but you should definitely tell him that it’s hurtful. He may dismiss it, but he’ll remember that you said it, especially if you do it every time.

These are the things I’ve done with my parents. The issue is no where near fixed, but it has definitely improved.

- Kit

1 day ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "Chiming in to the Masturbation Conversation to say that sometimes it's hardly even sexual for me - I'll just be in the shower, bored while my deep conditioner sets, and I'll be like "I'm not really aroused about anything but masturbation's fun, I'm gonna diddle" and it's such a great stress relief outlet and a way to feel good about your body. 750/10 would recommend"

1 day ago · 10 notes

Anonymous said, "Omg. Even though I'm a D-cup and I don't need it at all, I just bought a couple of push up bras. Best decision ever. My boobs looks amazing. I feel like a million dollars. I've got half a mind to post pictures all over the internet"



1 day ago · 6 notes

Anonymous said, "So as we were having sex i started feeling this burning sensation in my vagina and it kinda hurt. Should i be worried or is that cause we didnt use lube?"

Could definitely be some micro-tearing because of friction. May also be a yeast infection. If it doesn’t go away in a couple of days, try some soothing vaginal cream.

- Kit

2 days ago · 1 note

Anonymous said, "I'm like 80% single. Meaning that I have a crush on a guy, we've had sex several times, he's all cuddly and sweet. Except that he's terrified of a relationship or commitment or Saturday lunch with families and stuff. So I really want to flirt around with other guys as well. And I'm like. Is that even okay? I can't approach the crush about it, because he would run away at the mention of words like "relationship", "commitment" and "date". He's like a scared deer."


Unless you’ve had the exclusivity chat you can consider yourself (and him) single


2 days ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "So I've never masturbated before, but have been interested in starting. Thing is, I'm not sure how, where, or what to start with. Do you have any suggestions? Thank you, ladies!"

I think this is a p.good guide 


3 days ago · 4 notes