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Anonymous said, "I'm like 80% single. Meaning that I have a crush on a guy, we've had sex several times, he's all cuddly and sweet. Except that he's terrified of a relationship or commitment or Saturday lunch with families and stuff. So I really want to flirt around with other guys as well. And I'm like. Is that even okay? I can't approach the crush about it, because he would run away at the mention of words like "relationship", "commitment" and "date". He's like a scared deer."

Ye! 

Unless you’ve had the exclusivity chat you can consider yourself (and him) single

~Trip 


3 hours ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "So I've never masturbated before, but have been interested in starting. Thing is, I'm not sure how, where, or what to start with. Do you have any suggestions? Thank you, ladies!"

I think this is a p.good guide 

~Trip


13 hours ago · 3 notes

astronomifier:

rachelhaimowitz:

obsessionisaperfume:

deadcatwithaflamethrower:

queensimia:

palavenblues:

holy shit there is a name for it

Well damn. Explains a lot.

Suddenly I understand some of my fan base a LOT better.  That is Awesome. 

"holy shit there is a name for it" was my reaction before I even scrolled down to the comments.

I just need to keep reblogging this because I cannot even begin to tell you how profound a feeling of YES and THIS and THERE IS A WORD FOR ME OMG I get every time I see this, and I hope it helps others too.

seriously, anytime you see a post with a comment saying “theres a name for it?!” reblog that post because even if it doesnt apply to you any of your followers could be waiting for that revelation.

astronomifier:

rachelhaimowitz:

obsessionisaperfume:

deadcatwithaflamethrower:

queensimia:

palavenblues:

holy shit there is a name for it

Well damn. Explains a lot.

Suddenly I understand some of my fan base a LOT better.  That is Awesome. 

"holy shit there is a name for it" was my reaction before I even scrolled down to the comments.

I just need to keep reblogging this because I cannot even begin to tell you how profound a feeling of YES and THIS and THERE IS A WORD FOR ME OMG I get every time I see this, and I hope it helps others too.

seriously, anytime you see a post with a comment saying “theres a name for it?!” reblog that post because even if it doesnt apply to you any of your followers could be waiting for that revelation.

(Source: asexualityresources, via fuckyeahsexeducation)


13 hours ago · 54,344 notes · originally from asexualityresources

Anonymous said, "Hey y'all! Do yeast infections mess with your digestive system? As in causing bloating/constipation? I've read on a few sites that it does, and on others it only mentions the vaginal side effects."

Maybe if you let one get reaaalllllly bad?

But other than that I don’t think so, your vulva/vagina and stomach aren’t really connected. That being said some people theorize that your mouth and vulva are connected (dont ask me how) so maybe thats where some people get the idea from, but other than that: I doubt its scientifically a side affect of having a yestie 

~Trip


14 hours ago · 1 note

Anonymous said, "What's the best way to shave down there"

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14 hours ago · 3 notes

Anonymous said, "So, i masterbate almost everyday, usually multiple times a day. I have materbated up to 5 times in one day before. I have never had sex with anyone else. So my question: Do i have nymphophilia even though i've never actually had sex before?"

I don’t know what it is and I won’t google it but i’m assuming your relating it to being addicted to masturbation? 

Masturbation is p.normal no matter how frequent, or infrequent you do it. 

The only time to be concerned about a habit is if interferes with other parts of your life - are you skipping class, or shifts or coming in late to work because you had to take a time out to masturbate?

No? Then you’re probably a-ok and totally normal <3

~Trip


14 hours ago · 2 notes

Anonymous said, "in the same week that im telling our landlord that i have to move out, one of the other tenants is wanting to move away cause he broke up with his gf and she was the only thing keeping him in this town. i just went outside and i overheard the other tenants girlfriend on her phone, who also lived here saying that she was only staying w him cause money and shes moving to a state 9 hours away. our landlord has 6 kids and this private rental was her biggest source of income what do i do i feel awful"

You let it go, you cant change other peoples burdens and you can’t take them either, unless you are prepped to provide 24/7 for your landlord and his family, shurg it off and walk away, I promise a few things

  1. Landlords understand that property is not reliable income 
  2. People that have 6 children know they have 6 children and were prepared for the consequences of having to provide for that many people
  3. There will be more people that want to live in the place you want too, you lived there, someone will live there again
  4. Even if its a main source of income most people have savings, and additional sources of income 

It might be hard having to see, or know, other people struggle but thats unfortunately how it is and the best thing to do is be supportive if you know someone wants you to be, and often its just as good to be qualitive support as it is quantative 

~Trip


14 hours ago · 0 notes

Anonymous said, "So I think I fucked up. I had posted my Kik username on Tumblr a while back and I thought I had gotten rid of it by deleting the post, but apparently not. Anyway, a guy messaged me a few days ago and we got to talking and I ended up sending him nude pictures of myself with my face clearly visible in a few. Now he's telling me that if I don't do exactly what he says, that he'll post the pictures all over Tumblr and the internet for the world to see. What can I do to make this stop?"

Save all of your correspondence with him and tell him that blackmail is illegal. And if he does post your pictures anywhere without your consent, you could slap him with a number of different things depending on where you live (copyright violation, violation of privacy, sexual harassment, etc). It doesn’t matter whether or not you’d actually file a lawsuit against him, he needs to know that what he’s doing is illegal and what you did was not. Especially if you’re underage.

Other than that, I’m sorry to say, you need to move on from this situation. Even if you do intimidate him into not posting your pictures, you’ll never be able to truly know that they’re gone. He could always have copies saved somewhere, ready to show someone or use as blackmail. So all you can do is come to terms with it. There are hundreds of thousands of pictures of naked women online, I can guarantee that your photos would be lost in the crowd (if he would even actually post them). When he sees that you aren’t affected by his threats, he’ll be less likely to keep bothering you.

Just remember that we support you, and if this gets out, so will your family and friends. He’s a disgusting piece of human trash, and you’re better person than him in every way. Good luck and let us know what happens. <3



Anonymous said, "On female masturbation: I'm a female and I masturbate regularly, on a good week it'll be (at least) once per day. I find it's reallllllllyyy helpful for dealing with stress and getting to sleep. It has also helped me understand how I get to an orgasm so I can coach my boyfriend for better sex! Don't feel like a loser for doing it, enjoy it!"


Anonymous said, "For your survey: I'm a girl and don't masturbate. I just can't get into it and get bored, stop, and do something else. My sex drive is pretty high though, but my girlfriend's is not. She can and does masturbate (though less since we've become sexually active with each other). Go figure."

Different strokes for different folks I guess. Whether you masturbate on Friday nights or not, you are

-Alyssa



Anonymous said, "To answer 90% of the questions here: yes, you're normal. Talk to your partner and see what they say. Yes, that guy was a dick to you. No, you're not the only one."

Preach.



Anonymous said, "why wont my crush ask me out :("

Maybe they’re too shy? Maybe they don’t know you like them? Maybe they don’t want to be in a relationship? Maybe they don’t like people of your gender? Maybe they’re not interested in you?

No one knows! I don’t know, you don’t know, only your crush knows. Maybe you should ask them out instead :)

-Alyssa



Anonymous said, "So I know everyone says "everybody masturbates! It's normal!" But honestly sometimes I feel like I'm the only loser in the world sitting at home on Friday getting myself off. Are there like statistics or something to show that girls do it, too?!"

Well there are lots of different studies and statistics around the internet. Here’s one that says 92% of women masturbate. But I mean, of course girls masturbate too. We have just as much of a sex drive as everyone else, and even if most girls didn’t masturbate, that doesn’t make it lame. Masturbating is awesome hell yeah! Maybe if we do a little study of our own it’ll help you anon.

Like or reblog this post if you’re a girl and you masturbate. Wow look at all the notes.

-Alyssa



Anonymous said, "Is it normal to think about sex a lot (like a lot, a lot) but not do anything about it? I don't have sex or get myself off nearly as much as I think about it. I do the deed maybe twice every other week but I think about sex multiple times a day. In class or before bed I'll just have dirty thoughts or if I'm watching a show with a hot actor my mind will wonder. Is that normal??"

Yes



Anonymous said, "For the ask about the gag reflex, I read somewhere on here if you make a fist and squeeze it stops you from gagging? Don't know if it's true or not though?"

It’s not always true. This kind of works in the realm of the gateway theory, which is assuming that your body can only focus on one sensation at a time. It’s worth a try, though.

- Kit