If you’ve ever had a condom break, it’s probably because it was stored incorrectly, expired, or put on wrong.
P.S. STORES CAN SELL YOU EXPIRED CONDOMS! Check the expiration date!
I had a friend who was in your situation just a few weeks ago, and she just told him the truth. She sent him a text (which is how they were communicating between dates) that basically said “I had a great time with you on our dates, but I don’t really see this going anywhere romantically. You’re a great guy and I know you’ll find the right person for you, I just don’t think that’s me. I hope we can still stay in contact and be friends.”
He was really understanding and nice about it, and that was that. Be honest and respectful with the guy, and as long as he’s not immature or an asshole, it’ll be fine.
the body image revolution will be selfie-fied!
in my new vid i talk about how taking selfies can be a feminist act and offer lots of tips for you to improve your body image with selfies!
(NEW SEX+: THE SELFIE REVOLUTION)
I can try! Sort of. Short version:
BDSM a general guide! But I shall try and find more longevical advice to reblog currently
Hey Anon, I’m sorry you feel that! and if we’re doing that!
Can you tell me what was wrong with the how to eat pussy guide? I can add an abridged version and reblog it again or change the tag!
I understand your concerns about how we use pronouns but I’ve got to express that non of the ladies modding are trans and we’re probably not the best qualified on tumblr for sexual health advice for transfolk -
Our blog is of course open to everyone we will give men advice happily too even though this blog by and large is for grrls* but I honestly can’t recall ever having a trans woman ask us for sexual health advice and if any anon has ever asked us for non ‘body’ related advice and had us reply with incorrect pronouns I can only apologizes, if you have preferred pronouns in your ask PLEASE PLEASE let us know as we are MORE than happy to correct ourselves!
I’m happy to speak for all of us and call this blog (by those whom run it) fully inter-sectional and feminist, if we trip up or get your pronouns wrong please do ask-in (anon or otherwise) and let us know!
I think the reason we tend to use she instead of they/he in terms of referring to the ask-ee if they don’t specify otherwise is because such a large portion of our readership is female identifying and often cis (this not an excuse for any previous fuck ups but merely an explanation!)
No, you’re not really sorry. You’re incredibly aggressive and borderline rude.
At this blog, we do try to be respectful of trans* individuals. But ultimately, our mods are best equipped to handle the health/body questions of biological women. Should we receive a question from a trans* individual, we would do our best to help them with the knowledge that we have.
I do not agree that this blog is shaming of people’s genitals. We are incredibly sex and body positive on this blog, and work hard to keep it that way.
Thank you for bringing this issue to our attention, and we will make an effort to keep pronouns as gender-inclusive as possible. In the meantime, if you take that much of an issue with this blog, I recommend hitting the unfollow button. I’m sure there are many trans* advice blogs that are much better equipped to handle your concerns than we are.
Clean them more regularly! From what I know its generally more prelveant with people who have plugs/stretched ears, ear cheese is a thing, its a body hole and gets grimey like everything else (cough bellybuttons) if you’re sure they’re not infected then just try cleaning them once a day in the morning or when you shower in the evening!
I haven’t heard of it very often, no, but I do notice that my period gets irregular or messed up when I’m sick personally! Like I’m not normally heavy flow, but sometimes if I am sick when I get my period, it definitely gets heavier and more unruly. So perhaps!
Anyone out there with experience or knowledge? Other mods?
Irregularity when going on/off hormonal birth control is normal, yes. Just keep an eye out it, and if it continues longer than the first couple months, talk to a physician to check in with how your body is adjusting.
Probably! But that’s totally okay, and happens to the best of us. It’ll be back next month.
I have never heard of tampons causing burning when urinating, so my first guess would be that it was for other reasons. You may have been giving yourself infections by accidentally touching your tampon to some bacteria around the area, ie. perineum, anus, and then putting it close to your urinary tract.
A reminder to always be careful what you stick where, cause dude, shit gets messy down there! (puns, hah)
Dark blood is not something to be very worried about. It just means the blood is older, or it is blood from your lining. Kinda gross cause it can be gunky (remember, old) but yeah, it definitely happens. Maybe start keeping track, or check your records, of your period schedule to see if your period has been arriving later than you normally expect-this is usually the cause for darker blood. Also stacking pills, aka. skipping the non-hormone week of pills.
If you are not experiencing either, it wouldn’t hurt to check in with your doctor to make sure you aren’t experiencing any irregularity because of other reasons. But don’t freak out too much! :)
I personally have not dyed my hair, but a lot of my friends have! I think that it is pretty standard that for any vibrant non-natural colour, you have to bleach all your hair anyways. The colours look duller and not as good-quality if you just dye your regular hair. So I think if you want to do something so bright you’ll have to bleach it all anyways, which will solve your problem of having even hair!
Otherwise if you don’t want to bleach, maybe you want to just do something like a natural colour, but with highlights or an ombre. :) Ombres are very cool and “in” (i think, i am the least fashionable person ever so honestly idk)
Suggestions for hair colour people? :)
If you weren’t previously sexually active, sometimes sex can disrupt your cycle just a little bit. Stress probably isn’t helping either. If you’re really worried, get a cheap pregnancy test! I buy mine at the dollar store, and I usually by 4-5 to be sure. They work as well as any $15 test.
I am cest super new and have no one to hang out with w_w