If you’re in the UK it will be free from your GP (and confidential) or GUM and C&SH clinics!
I’ll let one of the USA/Canada ladies chime in for their own countries
You can use additional lube if you’d like, yes
I’ve done a little Google magic, and it seems like a good amount of people have had similar problems within a couple of weeks of getting that piercing. I would just make sure to keep it very clean and check constantly for infection (more than normal swelling, angry red color, purple color, clear white or yellow leaking from the piercing).
If lotion isn’t helping, I would see a doctor. It might be a developing skin condition, and they can give you stronger or medicated creams to put on it.
Ugh baby i know :( You also face so much shit from the queer community its unreal, I know its hard but just know that the most important thing in the whole world is your own safety and security!
Don’t do anything until you feel fully ready for the worst possible consequences <3 There is nothing wrong with the closet, you didn’t put yourself in there
Stabbing pains are generally considered a type of cramps as well :( If you feel it around your uterus, it could be large chunks of uterine lining sloughing off all at once, which is (as you might imagine) painful.
Go to your doctor and explain the pain to confirm, and also to get advice on how to avoid/reduce the pain. Those stabby pains are why I went on birth control in the first place! It’s been a long time since I’ve had them, and I don’t miss them one bit.
Good, grossed out but calm is the appropriate reaction. :)
It’s kinda like dandruff or lice! I mean it super sucks, and it’s yucky, but it happens. Just gotta take the proper steps to resolve the situation.
Don’t forget to check all the furniture and other areas!
(2) an hour ago he got home and we were laying in bed and i sat up and told him to look, he killed it and said that it wasnt a cockroach and i was freaking out i looked up bedbugs and its identical I’m so disgusted, I have no idea how they could’ve gotten into my room, I have no idea how to tell my mom she freaks out about bedbugs, i don’t even want to sleep in my room tonight I’m so upset. I’m a clean person i don know how this happened. I didn’t apologize to my boyfriend though, I said I was
(3) sorry for blaming it on him because I thought it was something else. I have no words right now i just want to move out
It happens, dear, it happens! You can apologize for blaming him and move on from here. :) Believe it or not, bedbugs are pretty damn common. The last few years there’s been a big surge of awareness for them, because they multiply and spread to other areas- it doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re an unclean person! I had a friend who slept over at someone’s house who had bedbugs (not a lot, but some!) and when he came back he ended up bringing them with him. It’s just hard to watch out for!
Luckily, I imagine there’s a lot of resources for how to get rid of them due to how common they are. Don’t give up! Don’t let these teeny little things beat you, because you are so way smarter than them. Here is a guide I found by googling, and it seems pretty straightforward! For the exterminator bits, just make sure to let them know specifically about bedbugs, not just any old bugs.
Keep fighting, you got this! Good luck!
-PlethorianI got bedbugs last summer and it really, truly affected my disposition so much that my best friend confronted me. They are annoying and frustrating and make you feel disgusting and unwelcome in your own home. However, having bedbugs does not at all mean you’re unclean. They travel in on luggage, new clothing, and even visitors. Unlike cockroaches, they aren’t attracted to filth and unattended food, but warmth and the carbon dioxide that we exhale. If you think you have bedbugs, there are a few easy ways to find them: check your sheets for small rust-colored stains from blood. Take the sheets of your bed and check the edges and seams of your mattress (this is where they’re usually most easily seen). You may notice bites or welts on your body, especially in groupings of 3-6 and on your back and sides. Bed bugs are pretty difficult to kill. I had to throw out my mattress, and then steam all of my clothes and bedding (well, I bagged them up and put them in my attic for a day). There’s a certain temperature bedbugs can no longer survive at, I believe it’s about 125F. This can be achieved with some clothing dryers. Wash all of your clothes and linens in hot water and then dry twice. You can spray the outside of your mattress with a solution of water and rubbing alcohol, which will kill most bugs that come to the surface. I also recommend, if you can’t afford a new mattress, to get a tightly woven mattress cover that zips, which keeps bedbugs in. You’ll need to keep it on for at least a year- bed bugs can go ages without feeding. Still, this gives you a chance to get rid of them in the rest of your home. If you put out bug poison, put it around the legs of your bed frame, as this is often how they come and go. I believe some bug bombs help with bed bugs as well. Make sure any and all pets are washed and check their fur for any bugs. - Kit
Not true! Well, the capacity of a condom perhaps, but not the part about the man lying.
It is very very possible that a condom does not fit a penis well- just because it fits so much liquid, does not mean it is not putting a lot of pressure on said liquid. If you imagine stretching condom material so tight, and then having that on a penis, that is not pleasant. It is very restrictive and may prevent erections or pleasure.
Furthermore, it is not just a matter of capacity, but of girth/length. Penises come in all shapes and sizes, but condoms do not have nearly enough types to fit every penis. It may be too short or too long, and have a high likelihood of falling off during sex. Or it may be too wide and allow for semen to slip out the sides- not good!
If you are worried about someone telling you the condom is too small- have other sizes on hand.
I posted this three times tonight and had three people tell me that I helped save their life. Thank you to those people who have decided to struggle through to let us enjoy the gift of one more day of their prescence gracing us all. I hope that you all reblog this, to save another few. Because we all dserve another chance and hope in life. I went to the hospital 6 times before I decided to keep my life but I hope none of you suffer that much. And I hope you all can make that scary, seemingly painful, blind, hoping, wonderful step to live.
I want to help you in any way I can. ANYTHING. I mean it. If I had had someone stay with me and text me or talk to me all night, just one time, it would have changed my life. I know how hard those nights can be.
^I love this girl more than words can express.
foundmywaywheniwaslost: I am always here if anyone ever needs to talk/vent. You have a purpose, Please Stay Alive. <3
Not just for tonight but for the rest of your life. You have so much to look forward to in the future that if you choose to kill yourself, it will be the biggest mistake of your life. You’re going to miss out on people you’ll never be able to meet, kids you’ll never have, a partner to love or partys to go to. There’s just too much that you’ll miss out on. You deserve and have the right to be here as much as the person next to you does. You’re just a drop in the ocean. You were meant to be here and you have a purpose. Don’t ever forget that. And if you feel like you don’t, just believe in yourself because you do. If you ever feel worthless or like shit, know that I love you and those dicks that tell you shit are jealous that you’re who you are because there’s something about you that they wish they could have. Please stay strong and never give up because things DO GET BETTER.
3rd time I reblog this xx
Keep your self awake, I hope your here to stay. This day is not yet over, let me be your four leaf clover.
Reblogged it and queued it so it’ll post tomorrow too. And the next day and the next so I hope I can save someone. We all love you.
someone messaged me this morning saying it helped and thanked me, so im reblogging this again, and queuing it. stay strong guys.
I reblog this whenever I see it. If you don’t reblog it, unfollow me right now. If you don’t care enough to put this simple picture on your blog, I’m judging you.
The very first time that I reblogged this, I had someone message me the next day saying that because of me, they didn’t kill themself. From then on whenever I see anything like this on Tumblr it’s an instant reblog for me. After receiving that message it just changed something in me. Whenever anyone I see on my dash is having thoughts of self-harm or even suicide, I automatically go to their page and offer them even just an ear to listen. Nearly all of them I receive messages back from saying that they are grateful, and they end up sharing their story with me, and in return I give them advice as best I can. Several of them have said that their lives have gotten much better because they opened up and sought out help.
Out of those people, I’d say at least 5 have even gone so far as to say that they didn’t kill themself because of me. That is, I kid you not, the best feeling in the world.
I needed this reminder.
everyone please reblog this its so important
This is important.
If you see this, this sign is for you. <3
Which is exactly what we say in our FAQ! Thanks. :)
This is a different ask:
My boyfriend takes forever to cum. At some points its a good thing but then again it isn’t. Is there any way I can make him cum faster…
Interestingly, my advice for both of these is the same! It’s kinda funny we got them both at the same time too. :P
People: COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNERS! If you want your partner to give you more attention, go longer, make you orgasm, you need to tell them! If you want to help your partner orgasm faster, ask them what to do! Tell them what you want, ask them what makes them feel better, and work together to make it happen! Check our FAQ because I addressed communication there. We also have THIS GUIDE TO COMMUNICATION WITH PARTNERS TO ACHIEVE HAPPINESS. Bold and capitals to draw your attention and make sure you click the link!! CLICK IT!
No one else but your partner (or a sexologist) can make your sex life better. Even the sexologist relies on your participation and help to make things happen! We don’t know what turns your partner on, or how to make your partner do better for you. Nor does Cosmo, the TV, movies, or other people you talk to. It’s you and your partner.
WORK TOGETHER TO MAKE IT WORK.
Yeah, it’s not foolproof. I would talk to your doctor about it just to make sure nothing else fishy is happening, but it’s totally possible. Mine would get displaced by about five days but then come back in full force. The only thing I could say would be to check with a doctor.
Yes, continue taking them. Unfortunately, there are many very common side effects of most stronger antibiotics, so he may not be willing to change your prescription. No, bleeding is not a typical symptom. Be very sure to mention this to your doctor.